What is it with all these sayings and 'posters' that are disguised as positive vibes. You know the ones that suggest that there are people that drain you and you should keep them out of you life.
Do these have anything to do with compassion and kindness? And if they don't, does intentionally cutting somebody out of your life generate happiness . . . for anyone?
What if some people just don't have the ability to generate enough goodwill, positive feelings and joyful moments for themselves? Is it the responsibility of people that can generate enough, and then some, to pass it around? And then in doing so, it would no longer be required to cut loose those people that can't generate it for themselves, but perhaps it could be an act of kindness or compassion by those that have enough to give it away. It's a balancing act between protecting yourself, and being compassionate in these circumstances.
The Dalai Lama says: "Cultivating care and concern for others gives rise to a kind of inner strength. No matter what difficulties or problems you face, in this wider context the'll seem less significant and troubling to you. The inner strength, self confidence and courage you gain by focussing on others needs, instead of your own, brings with it a deep calm sense of satisfaction."
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